Are you willing to look at an area you think you have mastered but really have not? Or at least you think you have attended to it enough, but you are still really in denial? This just happened to me. And now I am truly relieved I got it. Currently, I am working on mastering it, for I finally got that this was such an important piece to furthering my success. Here is the skinny: I consider myself a passionate person, not always perfect of course, but what I do love about myself is that I really do try, and I really do care when I do something. Plus, being a Gemini for my sun sign, I also tend to like many things! lol, I have a lot of fun... Living with this passion inside of me, I knew when I used to work for others that I was the type of person that needed to have my own business. So after years of following different passions, I created this business. I merged many of my talents together; creativity, love for money, spiritual authenticity, balance, and healing the world. So here I am doing it... About to launch my premier tele-seminar, and I got stuck! Ughhh!!! Not again, I thought I was over this thing called "getting stuck." You know getting stagnant in knowing what I have to do to go the next level of my business. I thought to myself what is wrong with me? I know exactly how to market and launch this thing, and why am I not doing it? I turned inwardly and examined what was going on with me??? Hhhhmmmmmm. Was it my fear of failure that arose when I launched my website? No. Was it my fear of not being able to truly help someone? No. Was it tech stuff and fear of having crazy tech stuff happen while I teach my course? A little, which is normal, all my fears are normal actually... But still it took me a little bit to catch this one. I finally got it one day when I was sitting at my computer, it was so simple I kept on missing it. I was not scheduled in a grounded, realistic way. Of course!! I looked back when I do programs, or when I am in school and I thrive because there is a schedule. I mean I do really well. I make it happen, get the grades I desire, and excel at whatever thing that is new that I am learning. BECAUSE, all of it was scheduled with times and end times. FEW!!! I figured it out. Also, know I am not with out a schedule, but I was a little afraid to see I needed to fine tune and make my schedule more concrete and finite. This is what happened next: First Step: GET OUT OF DENIAL Second Step: Accept this truth, embrace it like my new best friend, and love that having a real schedule is the IT for me right now. Third Step: Ask for help. I am lucky for I have two great men in my life to help me with this, my boyfriend and my father. They excel at this in fact. Fourth Step: Be willing to accept that this is something new to learn, and take it step by step so it will now become a part of my life in a real, grounded, authentic way! Ahhh, yes this is what I need. What is it in your life, that simple small thing that is becoming so big it is hindering your progress to new heights and dreams of yours? Share below what it is, it will help me, you, and everyone else that is in denial too! hahaha, LOL It is not as if I expect you too have the same problem as me. Maybe yours is lack of commitment, maybe it is no true vision, maybe your dreams are unrealistic right now and you need to take things more step by step, maybe you need to love your self more and tell your self you can do it! I am not sure what it is, but once you are honest with your self a whole new level of success and possibilities, and relief will begin to show up for you. Write your comments on my comments (upper right click on yellow comment) look with in, and make the recognition and change that will create new possibilities in your life and career! Right NOW! We are all committed to the now, so do it now... : ) I WANT TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS/FEELINGS, AND SO DOES EVERYONE ELSE! I look forward to hearing your unique experience. : ) 3 Comments |